Help With My Elf

Visiting elf idea

One Card of Kind Rules

The elf posts one index card: look, do not carry me off, notice helping, go home on Christmas Eve.

  • Arrival
  • Anywhere
  • Nice
  • No mess
  • Household items
  • 5 minutes
  • Toddler-safe
  • Pet-safe
  • First year
Pip, a handmade visiting elf — a stand-in until this idea’s illustration is ready

What you need

These are household pieces. Borrow from the junk drawer first.

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How to set it up

  1. 1

    Write four short lines on one card. Include the Christmas Eve goodbye.

  2. 2

    Say you notice helping and trying again. Skip scores and threats.

  3. 3

    Prop the card on a mug and sit the elf beside it.

  4. 4

    Leave the card where it can be read without climbing.

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